“We feel Wabi-Sabi at Thanksgiving, perhaps more than any other time of the year.
The farms and fields are combed of grain and produce, the dormant ground appears
as rich as potting soil andthe trees revealtheir branchy bones and wounds
and marks of years of sylviculture.”
Wabi Sabi Simple: Create Beauty. Value Imperfection. Live Deeply – By Richard R. Powell
It is fascinating to notice the contrast of what our holiday seasons have become compare to the ones, for instance, our great grand parents used to have. In the old days, the focus was the quality of the food, the time spent together and was certainly “lacking” of perfectionism that our modern world impose upon us.
As much as I am deeply drawn to scandinavian simplicity – which some of you might object and define as “perfectionism”-, to me it is the beauty in the simplicity, the absence of too “muchness”, the clean, un-clutter, natural, raw materials used throughout the home.
I am drawn the same way to this beautiful Japanese way of living called Wabi-Sabi.
Wabi Sabi celebrates the beauty of the imperfection. It is actually an art form.
Wabi-sabi is the art of finding beauty in imperfection: it values simplicity, uncluttered, underplayed, and modest surroundings. Authenticity is key to wabi-sabi philosophy: <<the presence of cracks and scratches in things are considered to be symbolic of the passing of time, weather, and loving use>>.
Wabi-sabi decor inspires minimalism that focuses more on the people who live in the space than anything else. Possessions and other items are pared down to the essentials based on utility and simple beauty.
It is such a contrast with our modern and western view of the Holiday seasons !
Just by taking a brief look into the shopping malls, catalogs, magazines and you will be overwhelmed by intricate home decor “made in cheap” that will last you about a season until it breaks or is out-of-trend.So much to “choice” from and add to our natural stress level of the holiday season.
In the end it does not add, it depletes you.
With this post, I hope to inspired you to look at what you already have and use it is a different way, bring nature in, make some easy crafts, share some simple and homemade food (yes, all made from scratch). Dig into your old family recipe that takes no more than 5 easy ingredients to make. Don’t over do it. It does have have to be gourmet, nor does it have to look like a picture perfect as the great Martha Steward (love her dearly but she a whole team working for her!).
I used to love creating the same sort of home decor and the perfect Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner, parties, etc. As much as it was rewarding in the end to have something looking like what you had envisioned it was also very stressful and not always enjoyable.
I am slowly learning and reminding myself that perfection is not ideal when stress is fueling it. It is a huge mind shift for me as I have to un-teach myself that in the end it is all going to be fine and friends and family won’t know what was planned “in my mind” compare to what is “on the table”.
Keep it simple and enjoy a lovely Wabi-Sabi Thanksgiving filled up with joy, mindful moments, gratitude shared with friends and family.
The Wabi Sabi art of living focuses on living a life based on “being enough”, living modestly.
In terms of “style” It reminds me a little the Shaker style : white and earthy tones palette, natural, raw materials (wood, natural fabrics,
EIGHT easy steps to simplify your Thanksgiving table setting :
First gather everything that has a worn wooden look to it (bread cutting boards, wooden bowls, wooden plates, etc.)
Then gather everything that is made of simple white porcelain ( coffee cups / plates / bowls )
If you have and can borrow some of your grandma silverware, sprinkle some in the mix.
Take a nice relaxing walk and gather meaningful rocks, branches, acorns, pinecones, dried leaves that you could use in small amount to naturally invite the beauty of the season to your table.
Create some simple and yet thoughful place mats / mini decor to have your guests leave comments, thoughts on what being Thankful mean to them. I gathered many beautiful examples on my Special “MINIMALIST THANKSGIVING” Pinterest Board right here.
Bring some twinkling lights in with recycled mason jars, and simple tea lights to bring lights to your table.
Have your children, grand children write the menu on a chalkboard.
Breathe :: your Thanksgiving is going to be perfectly “imperfect” and beautiful. Enjoy and make yourself a nice cup of tea with your handmade tea bags.
A SWEET TUTORIAL COMING VERY SOON !
NOT TO MISS IT !
HERE ARE SOME EYE CANDY PICTURES
TO REIMAGINE YOUR THANKSGIVING AND
SHINE A NEW SIMPLE LIGHT UPON IT.
[ More gorgeous pictures on my special Pinterest Minimalist Thanksgiving board ]
⩔SOUL WORK FOR THE WEEK⩔
What part of Thanksgiving Day can you improve?
- Is it cooking from scratch some family recipe with very few ingredients only bought at the farmer’s market?
- Is it re-using, “tinkering”, “hacking’ complicated, expensive, stressful family traditions for your table setting and your meal planning?
- Is it lovingly teaching your family and children that this year you are going to try have a greener and more soulful Thanksgiving Day?
- And remember from last week post the value of the Wabi Sabi philosophy :
<< When the Japanese mend broken objects, they believe that when something suffered damage and has a history, it becomes more beautiful>>
⩔SHARING IS CARING⩔
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